Thanks for posting, Amanda.
You raise a couple of issues, so I'll deal with each in turn:
1) MY PERSONAL DETAILS ARE BEING PASSED ON AND USED FOR OTHER MEANS WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE OR AGREEMENT
If any of your personal details are being passed on and circulated without your consent, it is extremely unlikely that those details are originating from this forum.
(I'll not say "impossible" but when I say "extremely unlikely" I mean as close to impossible as you can get.)
Nevertheless, if, despite my assurances, you still believe that the details in question are originating from this forum, please can you state why and I will look into it as a matter of urgency.
I need some clear evidence please - this will help me track down and fix the issue (if there is an issue).
If there is no issue of course - and I strongly suspect there isn't - then there is no problem to be dealt with at this end.